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Oppositional Defiant Disorder: How Do I Help My Child?

2026-08-28T17:22:24+00:00August 28th, 2026|Christian Counseling for Children, Featured, Individual Counseling|

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) is a behavior condition found in children who continue to display patterns of hostile and uncooperative behavior. ODD can disrupt the daily interactions and activities of a child. Most of the time, this behavior is toward people in authority. While it is common for children to be oppositional on occasion, ODD goes beyond what is considered typical behavior. It is common for children and teens with ODD to have other behavior problems such as ADD, depression, anxiety, and even learning disabilities. ODD isn’t just a typical temper tantrum. It frequently includes irritability and vindictiveness toward others, especially those in authoritative roles. It has also been noted that, when untreated or misdiagnosed, ODD can continue into adulthood. Symptoms of ODD To diagnose children and adolescents with ODD, it is important to recognize the symptoms. A child or adolescent with one or two of these symptoms usually isn’t diagnosed with ODD. For it to be Oppositional Defiant Disorder, the child must have at least four of these symptoms over the course of six months. Being argumentative Irritable mood Frequent anger outbursts Refusing to cooperate with adults and instructions/requests Questioning or disregarding rules habitually Behavior patterns of upset, anger, or annoyance with authority figures Often blaming others for mistakes and behavior Vindictive or spiteful behavior; including unkind acts when angry Consistently arguing with authority figures or adults To obtain an accurate diagnosis of ODD, it is important to give the medical professional an accurate and complete medical history. This will allow for a more complete treatment plan. Causes of ODD There is no medically known cause of Oppositional Defiant Disorder. It is thought that a combination of various factors contributes to ODD behavior. The psychological factors that may play a part in ODD are linked to how the [...]

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Bullying Prevention is Possible With Help

2025-04-09T07:21:36+00:00January 6th, 2023|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Family Counseling, Featured|

Bullying is a serious and significant problem that affects our children and so bullying prevention is a topic parents should understand. It is a form of violence that can have a lasting negative effect on the health of the person bullied, and the bully. In essence, bullying is when the more powerful party repeatedly acts in a way that hurts and distresses the person targeted. Harm can be inflicted on the victim in a wide variety of ways, some examples include: physically, through hitting, shoving, and tripping; psychologically, through teasing and name-calling, as well as social harm through spreading rumors or excluding someone from the group. Damage to the victim's property is also understood to be bullying. Unfortunately, bullying is not limited to physical interactions but can be done through any means of communication including social media. This is known as cyberbullying or electronic bullying. Bullying is a widespread problem. The repeated nature of victimization and the significant adverse effects of bullying on all parties involved makes the fact that bullying is fairly common all the more tragic. It is not simply the victim and perpetrator who are negatively impacted but the bystanders too. The Centre for Disease Control and Prevention found that 25% of high school students admitted to being bullied while at school while more than 15% of high school students said they were bullied electronically. Another way to understand this is to say that of your child and their four friends, one has been bullied while at school. As bullying is dependent on a power imbalance, logically, some youths are bullied more than others. It happens across genders and cultures, throughout childhood and adolescence. If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of bullying, reaching out to a counselor at Flower Mound Christian [...]

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